Wednesday, July 23, 2014

About Sexuality: Disconnected Desires

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From Cory Silverberg, your Guide to Sexuality

In movie sex scenes, pornographic and otherwise, people always seem to want the same amount of sex.  Most sex education is geared to younger people who we (wrongly) understand to always want sex.  So where do we learn how to deal with the very real, very common, and mostly ignored aspect of sexual relationships:  when one of you wants something and the other doesn't?  Your trusty About.com newsletter is one place to start.  ~  Cory

 

 

I'm Not In the Mood for Sex, But My Partner Is
Sometimes a question comes in without any context at all, like this week, when I received one sentence about not being in the mood when your partner is, and what to do about it. 

 

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Aching for PDA
Public displays of affection can be a hot button topic, especially early on in a relationship.  How do you ask for what you want without asking someone to change who they are? 

 

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When You Want More and They Want Less
Differences in sexual desire are common, and because our desire for sex changes, the way these differences shake out changes too.  No matter which side of the scales you're on, here are some tips on dealing with it.

 

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Boyfriend Likes Masturbation More Than Sex

"My boyfriend are I are both in our 20s, not married, neither one of us has kids. I can't get past the point that he masturbates while I'm in the house without wanting to have sex with me. I feel like I shouldn't be mad about his masturbating. But I also feel like I shouldn't have to beg him to have sex with me. Please help!"

 

 

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