...Love the One You're With

Love the One You're With
This year I have decided to go minimal for Valentine's Day. Gone are the blog posts about marketing campaigns, hot air balloon rides, and sex toys.  I can get into those things as much as the next person (well, not the hot air balloon, you couldn't pay me to get into one of those things) but for whatever reason I'm inspired this year to focus on the things that money can't buy, maybe it's because I, along with so many others, have a lot less money to spend.  

You can buy sex, and you can certainly rent happy distraction, but you can't buy love.  Whether you're single or partnered, monogamous or not, I hope that at least one day this week and next you show yourself a little love.  It might not be easy to do, but once you do it you realize it doesn't cost much, and it's worth a whole lot more than anything you can actually buy.  ~  Cory

Someone forward you this email? No Sweat! Sign up here to get your own If you're having trouble viewing this email, click here Follow Us ...Love the One You're With Love the One You're With This year I have decided to go minimal for Valentine's Day. Gone are the blog posts about marketing campaigns, hot air balloon rides, and sex toys.  I can get into those things as much as the next person (well, not the hot air balloon, you couldn't pay me to get into one of those things) but for whatever reason I'm inspired this year to focus on the things that money can't buy, maybe it's because I, along with so many others, have a lot less money to spend.   You can buy sex, and you can certainly rent happy distraction, but you can't buy love.  Whether you're single or partnered, monogamous or not, I hope that at least one day this week and next you show yourself a little love.  It might not be easy to do, but once you do it you realize it doesn't cost much, and it's worth a whole lot more than anything you can actually buy.  ~  Cory Cory Silverberg Sexuality Expert Love Thyself   There was once a movement afoot to re-label masturbation as the art of self loving.  Sometimes it might be more like self-liking, or just self-involving, but anyway you do it, you might pick up a few tips from About.com's guide to masturbation. READ NOW Sex Tip: Reveal Yourself to Yourself   If opening up to a new partner seems to risky you can always try revealing yourself to yourself first.  Sounds simple, but it can be a house of mirrors. READ NOW Sex Question of the Week: Selfish In Bed   How can I tell if he thinks I'm selfish in bed? I was wondering if guys like being the one to be doing more of the kissing and caressing or if it should be more even. I'm not one to shy away from giving a blow job, but he keeps trying to get it back up for round two and I feel like I get caught up in my own sexual pleasure and I zone out the fact that he might want some too, and when it comes to mind I try to do the stuff he likes but I don't do it nearly as much as he does. READ NOW DIY Valentine's Day   Eight projects that will cost next to nothing and express your love or lust in a way no store bought token ever could. READ NOW Featured Articles • Surviving The Hell Of Coparenting With a Narcissist • Hurry! 11 Last-Minute Valentines Day Ideas • Trent and Cassandra Dilfer Marriage Profile • Dealing With Divorce: What Men Could Learn From Women • Here's How to Tell if Your Marriage Will Last • A Valentine's Day Guide for the Widowed • 4 Simple Steps to a Magical Valentine's Day • Learn More About the Successful Marriage of Alejandro Gonzalez Inarritu Advertisement About Sexuality  |  Follow Us You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to unsubscribe, please click here 1500 Broadway, 6th Floor, New York, NY, 10036 © 2015 About.com - All rights reserved. Privacy Policy.