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 | Against all our efforts to make it so, time is not linear. It's important to mark time with rituals like New Years, but it's a mistake to confuse our need to make sense of something with the thing itself. Which is one reason why the job of a sex educator can often feel absurd and Sisyphean. But I’m hardly immune from the desire to make sense and mark time (my knees are making it impossible for me NOT to do that) and however you think about time, wherever you are, I hope that you are as safe as you can be and as near to love as possible. One more week until there’s a whole new year to greet. ~ Cory | | Top Ten Sex Questions of 2014
It’s a completely unscientific exercise but this time of year I like to look back and see which sex questions seemed to stick most with readers. It’s a skewed sample, but for what it’s worth here are the most popular sex questions of 2014, follow the links to get the most popular answers.
| Writing Your Sexual Story
When poet and philosopher George Santayana wrote that “those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it” he probably wasn’t thinking about sex. But I’d argue that it applies to our sex lives as much as anything, and while it might be uncomfortable or painful to look back, it’s hard to know how much past events are controlling you without thinking about them at least a little.
| Should the Past Stay There?
I’m dating a girl I’m really into and think it could be serious. We’ve started talking about our sexual pasts and I almost told her about a few drunken fooling around situations with other guys. I’ve never told any of my girlfriends about it, but I’ve also never been this serious about a girlfriend before. The problem is that I know her family is super religious and I think she might freak out. If I think she might be the one, is it wrong for me not to tell?
| How Long Does Sex Usually Last?
Thinking about time not in years but in minutes, people talk about having sex all night long. But how many people (other than professionals) are watching the clock when they are having sex?
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