Why Does He Take So Long?

The stories we tell each other and ourselves about men and sex are all pretty bleak.  They want sex all the time but never want to talk about it. They are ready any moment but are sexually callous.  They are fundamentally aggressive.  On and on it goes, and it's no wonder that men are so messed up about sex when you think about the options presented to them.  And what do they do when the problem they are having doesn't fit neatly into the options they have?  That's what this week's newsletter is about.  ~  Cory

 

Someone forward you this email? No Sweat! Sign up here to get your own If you're having trouble viewing this email, click here Follow Us Why Does He Take So Long? The stories we tell each other and ourselves about men and sex are all pretty bleak.  They want sex all the time but never want to talk about it. They are ready any moment but are sexually callous.  They are fundamentally aggressive.  On and on it goes, and it's no wonder that men are so messed up about sex when you think about the options presented to them.  And what do they do when the problem they are having doesn't fit neatly into the options they have?  That's what this week's newsletter is about.  ~  Cory   Cory Silverberg Sexuality Expert He Takes Too Long to Finish   My partner is a physically active, very healthy 56 year old man.  We have been together for 1 1/2 years. He has delayed ejaculation and I'm afraid it's going to be the end of our relationship.   He says, "He never had this problem before."  I doubt it, but I want to do what I can to help. READ NOW What Is the Definition of Delayed Ejaculation?   Most of what we know about delayed ejaculation comes from research on the opposite.   And in case you were wondering, most of it involves a stopwatch. READ NOW How Common Is Erectile Dysfunction in Young Men?   The face of erectile dysfunction is a white married man in his 50s or 60s.  He's usually driving a motorcycle or hanging out in a bathtub outdoors in one drug advertisement or another.  But young men can and do experience changes in their erections. READ NOW How to Raise a Sexual Problem with Your Partner   Something is clearly going on, but neither of you want to be the first to bring it up. Here are eight things to think through before broaching the sexual elephant in the room. READ NOW Featured Articles • Regis and Joy Philbin: How to be Married and Work Together for So Long • 12 Chart-Topping Male Singers Who Have Come Out as Gay • All You Wanted to Know about Johnny Carson and Alexis Maas' Marriage • 3 Things That Promote Happiness in Marriage For Women • Marriage: Good For Men, Bad For Women? • 6 Ways For Divorced Dads To Stay In Contact With Their Children • Why Do Passive Aggressive People Usually Play the Victim Role? • How Is Warren Buffet and Astrid Menks' Marriage Unusual? Advertisement About Sexuality  |  Follow Us You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to unsubscribe, please click here 1500 Broadway, 6th Floor, New York, NY, 10036 © 2015 About.com - All rights reserved. Privacy Policy.